May 14

Growing towards a Goal

Okay. Funny as I typed the title I typed “Growing towards a God”. Wonder what else is on my mind.

Once upon a time, I was a Recruitment Adviser for my college sorority chapter. I attended a conference organized by the international group geared towards helping chapters have more successful recruitments.

There was a great workshop on “branding”. The main idea being to pick 3 words that you want to describe your chapter, everything you do should fall into one of the categories/words you have chosen for your chapter.

It’s a lot like the concept on HGTV’s Find Your Style. Pick 4 or 5 elements for your room and stick with them. (I’m a total addict. I heart DVR.)

I went through a long, dark patch, and had just pulled myself out of it when the shizzle hit the fizzle.

I’m ready to get my act together. I have the time, the resources and I’m striving to have the energy to do it. Perfection is not an option. Perfection is not a goal. Improving my life, Scout’s life and Alex’s life – absolutely.

My thoughts started out rather superficially. All about looks. Hair, clothes, style. Fun stuff.

I always liked the look of Carolyn Bessette.
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(Photo from Vanity Fair.)

and Reese Witherspoon

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(Photo from Popsofa.com.)

Does this mean I want to be blonde? Nope. It’s something about their general look I’m drawn to.

(For the record, my girl crush on Reese was eclipsed by Addison Forbes Montgomery Shepherd.)

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(Photo from msnbc.com.)

Which then led me to my house. My poor, neglected, messy house. How I wish it looked more like this.

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(Photo from www.pompy.com)

That said, I’ve decided on my 3 descriptors – are you ready?

Clean, Chic and Just Enough

Today starts a new day. Wanna join me?

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  1. Clean. Oh, to have a clean house. I try, truly I do. But with the Sergeant gone and an 11 month old running me ragged, plus daily life…

    But it’s a good goal, a worthy goal. I think I might try it. :)

    the dragonfly’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday: My First Mother’s Day – Trier, Germany

  2. Kelley says:

    OMG I totally have a grrl crush on Addison! She is just gorgeous.

    At the moment I am working on something similar with the kids room and the laundry. The 3 word descriptor is: Door Always Closed.

  3. Veronica says:

    Clean, what is that again?

    Veronica’s last blog post..Chocolate, You?¢‚Ǩ‚Ñ¢re Really Just A Cheap Substitute.

  4. Kyla says:

    Oh Addison. But my husband can’t get over that she played a man who had a sex change on CSI. Now he says she looks mannish. LOL.

    Kyla’s last blog post..Clean fan blades are a sign of the Apocalypse

  5. MP says:

    Maybe that is my problem.. I need 3…

    Target,WorldMarket,Husband

    really, that is sad.. Let’s try again

    Dark,Simple,Temporary

    I really need to snap out of it…

    MP’s last blog post..Breakdown of body and sole.. otherwise known as getting older.

  6. Very cool idea! I need a brand for myself. I’d keep changing it though, so I’ll have to think long and hard.

    A Whole Lot of Nothing’s last blog post..Wordless 5.14.8

  7. Ree says:

    Great concept! I’m not ready yet, but I may participate soon…

    Ree’s last blog post..Meeting Mr. Hot

  8. very cool. i would love to have clean as a descriptor.

    alas, life gets in my way.

    the planet of janet’s last blog post..To J-bear on your 18th birthday

  9. I love the three you picked. I’m excited to see you working towards it.

    And I LOVE Find My Style too! I Kelli @ Gohn Crazy’s last blog post..Mother’s Day

  10. liv says:

    love those descriptors. just perfect. you.

  11. Very glad to see you decluttering your mind & your house. Apt descriptions. And, I’ve had a crush on Reese since she did Disney movies.

    Anglophile Football Fanatic’s last blog post..When it Ain?¢‚Ǩ‚Ñ¢t Easy Being Green.

  12. Memarie Lane says:

    I’d have to go with Anne Hathaway, Katie Holes, and Emmy Rossum. But why am I doing this again?

    Memarie Lane’s last blog post..Cheap, Easy, and Delicious.

  13. Lisa says:

    Clean–is that possible with kids?

    Lisa’s last blog post..Death by Tutu

  14. Audubon Ron says:

    Go for it.

    [I got your back]

    Audubon Ron’s last blog post..Good News Wednesday

  15. Just enough…I like that :)

  16. Kristen says:

    Your words are perfect. I am glad you are at a point where you want to look ahead and make goals and grow. It has been such a difficult run for you, I don’t know how you are still standing, but here you are, thriving in the midst of it all. I come here and want to offer you a shoulder, but I come away encouraged instead.
    The shoulder is here though, and I truly care. Take care and blessings on yours.

    Kristen’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday: Kissing attack

  17. Bee Repartee says:

    It’s amazing what a new lipstick and hair color can do for a gal.

    Same could be said for a maid and a $1000 IKEA Gift card.

    Bee Repartee’s last blog post..My Sixth Sense Says You Are Moded

  18. Mary Alice says:

    Yes.I.Do. Schools out and I even have TIME now!

    Mary Alice’s last blog post..Mr. Poorly Informed Jerky McJerk Jerk

  19. Grandy says:

    I’m a day late. Is it too late? Did I miss the party?

    My three words…

    Focus. Fun. Family.

    Ooh 3 F’s. Is that bad?

    Grandy’s last blog post..The Last Good-bye

  20. I would settle for “clean” to be true around here at least 80% of the time.

    Dreams.

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