Archive for August, 2009

Aug 28

Fiber Arts Friday – Phat Fiber Box pt 2

Remember the Phat Fiber box from last week? Here’s what I’ve done this week.

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The detail is from Mama Jude’s Plant Dyed Stuff and the base is from my Shadysidefarmstudio stash.

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Tiny afghan (made 2) using Autumn Harvest from The Spinning Sheep, some Cherry/Strawberry themed from my8kidsmom and some yellow from my Shadysidefarmstudio stash.

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(Quick story – my grandpa made me a dollhouse and furniture, my mom and grandma made all the bedding – but this bed never had any covers – fixed that!)

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Detail is Carmel Apple Handspun from Fiber Fancy and again the base from my Shadysidefarmstudio stash.

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Accent is Prize winning goldfish from Carly Original, base is a two strand combo of Shadysidefarmstudio stash and orange from Larkspur Funny Farm. I crocheted the flower detail – which is something I’d never tried before, but I really wanted to show off the goldfish yarn.

(forgive the photos, meant to crop myself out but got lazy)

More Fiber Arts Friday at Alpaca Farmgirl.

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Aug 21

Fiber Arts Friday – Alpaca Hat from Phat Fiber box

I’d heard of the Phat Fiber box that is sold from the etsy Phat Fiber Store. Each month has a theme and a charity that proceeds to toward.

They drop the box once a month – and I had no idea how popular it was. At the 5pm (Eastern) drop, I was there waiting and refreshing. When the items popped up in the store, I selected, picked my address, checked out, went to paypal to pay, paid, clicked back to etsy and 1/3 of the items were gone. I clicked refresh and 2/3 of the items were gone. I clicked refresh and they were ALL gone – sold out in 90 seconds. Amazing.

One of my favorite things about knitting is having something small and needing to be creative on how to “make it work” The sample of handspun yarn from Northstar Alpacas “spoke” to me. I decided it would be a great stripe on a hat, I took it upstairs and found the yarn to use for the base color that made me happy – (from Larkspur Funny Farm).

I made it up as I went along and I really do love the Northstar Yarn.

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I think my goal is to use this box for hats for Comfed Out Kaiser for the winter – I like the idea of using the samples as inspiration.

Next up – This superfine merino yarn from By Rebekah With Love – I usually don’t love merino – but this is *so soft* Like alpaca/bunny smackdown quality soft.

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edited: so I was going to have this hat done in time for next week – uh – weather sucked today and I had a headache so I went for it. The color of the awesome Candy Apple doesn’t show as well here, but I’m overall pleased with the hat. I used the superfine merino yarn from By Rebekah With Love and then two yarns from Shady Side Farm Studio.

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(more fiber arts at alpacafarmgirl)

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Aug 20

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Aug 14

You were always enough

I read your words.

“I was sexually abused. How I hate typing those words. But they have been in my mind forever, swirling around, hiding at times, but it?¢‚Ǩ‚Ñ¢s always there.”

The words surrounding your experience and your life continued. They overlapped your initial words, until those words were almost forgotten under the layers of your current fears and challenges. You talked of how you coped, how you resisted touch, avoided nakedness, slept partially on guard and ready to flee. I focused on the *now* and it blurred your initial words. I believe these words to be true. I believe these words to be the truest words you ever wrote.

“I was sexually abused. How I hate typing those words. But they have been in my mind forever, swirling around, hiding at times . . .”

I do not believe that you shower in a bathing suit (have seen a photo of you standing outside in a towel, labeled “just got out of the shower”). I do not believe you sleep in sneakers (have never seen you in sneakers, period). I don’t believe you helped pull people from a burning car (there are no reports of a car fire and airlift in the news of the small town near where the event “happened”).

“I was sexually abused. How I hate typing those words. But they have been in my mind forever, swirling around . . .”

I believe you when you wrote

“I was sexually abused. How I hate typing those words. But they have been in my mind forever . . .”

I am angry that the next time I hear a survivor of abuse share his or her story, that I will have a seed of doubt when they share of their fear, of how that experience may continue to break them. I am angry at you, that because of embellishing your own story, you have cast doubt on every. single. fellow abuse survivor.

“I was sexually abused. How I hate typing those words.”

These words are your truth. Clear away all the other stories, all the other lies, all the other embellishments. The truth is ENOUGH. The truth is too much, it is plenty, it is bad enough, it is enough to merit you asking for help. You never needed to add all the other STUFF.

“I was sexually abused.”

Focus on those words. The true words. The four words that say everything. The four words that are so huge, that I understand you throwing other words in front of them to hide them from view. Face them. Deal with them. Move forward. You were always enough. Your truth was always enough. You never needed the rest of the words.

“I was sexually abused.”

Stop hiding from those words.

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Aug 09

How to get a Sponsor for BlogHer ’10

Costs for BlogHer fall into three categories: Conference ticket, lodging and travel.

I have found the Kaiser Mommy method of finding conference sponsorship to be 100% effective. I thought about asking people to pay me for my knowledge but then decided that was snatchy and counterproductive and wouldn’t help the community as a whole, so for you, free of charge, The Kaiser Mommy Method of Conference Sponsorship.

Before you sit to read, please find three containers – bowls, ziplock bags, shoe box, mr potato head…. whatever. As long as there are three of them. And get something to write with.

1. Conference ticket sponsorship: Early bird registration pricing of $202.95 (including eventbrite fees) closes on February 28th – 30 weeks from now. $6.77 cents each week from now until then. I choose one of my three containers now and write “Conference Ticket Sponsorship” on it. This is the time to raid the money stashes, the spare change. The couch cushions, coat pockets, bottom of purse (sadly lint is non negotiable. Oh if it had cash value I would be oh so rich.) That took care of about four dollars AND I found a pair of earrings I was looking for. From now until 2/28, any time I get change back or run across change, it will go in the Conference Ticket box. When I go to the grocery store I will pass up 2 impluse purchases (candy bar, magazine, drink, muffin, 14th bottle of lotion) and I will throw that money into the box. I fully admit, we are not on a particularly tight budget, be we do try to watch what we spend. I will do this until I hit that magic $202.95, then buy my ticket. And put a sticker over an old conference button that says “Conference Ticket Sponsored by ME!”

2. Lodging. Label that second container. The Hilton is $199.99 each night, I assume with taxes it is $250/night. $250/night for 3 nights is $750. Divided by 4 people in a room – $187.50. For the 22 weeks from 2/28 (When the conference ticket is paid for.) Till August 1st, I need to save $8.52 each week. Dammit. I was hoping it would be less. So same routine as above – but I have to forego even more impulse purchases at the grocery store. I can do it though. While I’m NOT buying things I can look for 3 roommates. And make a sign to hang on my hotel door that says “Hotel lodging Sponsored by ME!”

3. Travel. Third container out. Third container labeled. Get an idea of how much to spend: Check flight prices (I like kayak.com), train prices (amtrak.com), bus prices (greyhound.com) and carpool prices. As a backup plan, find 2 other people to carpool with and be ready to do the BlogHer roadtrip next year, I wouldn’t PLAN on it, but it would rawk to have no travel costs, but gotta have that cash on hand for travel if needed. To my delight and shock I can fly to NYC for about 300*. Back to saving. 300 dollars, 52 weeks – $5.77 each week. Perhaps if I just eat a side salad or appetizer each time we go out to eat? Skipping that entree… Or not getting Alex a kids meal and having him eat off our plates (He’s two, that’s still acceptable at restaurants.) That could work. Then I can wear another button, “Travel sponsored by ME”

* Flights to NYC: Edmonton – 707; Vancouver – 502; SanFrancisco, Seattle – under 400; Houston, Phoenix – 350; Cinci – under 300; Miami; Kansas City, Minneapolis, LA – 250; St. Louis, Dallas, Denver – under 250; Chicago, DC – under 200

Another way I could sponsor myself to BlogHer 10 that uses less math – get 1 envelope, label it BlogHer -10 and one day each week put a 20 dollar bill into it, and just make myself make the adjustments in my weekly spending because that money simply wouldn’t be available.

For me – it looks like for 691 dollars I can sponsor myself to BlogHer 10. I can spend the weekend on my own schedule, without needing to worry about working for someone else through the weekend. For $13.28 each week from now until BlogHer ’10 ($1.89 each day) – I can sponsor myself to go to BlogHer 10. When I break it down like that? No worries. Totally doable.

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